14 ବର୍ଷରେ ଯୌନ ନିର୍ଯାତନାର ଶିକାର ହୋଇଥିଲେ ଆମୀରଙ୍କ ଝିଅ

ମୁମ୍ବାଇ: ବଲିଉଡର ପପୁଲାର ଷ୍ଟାର କିଡ୍ସ ମଧ୍ୟରେ ମିଷ୍ଟର ପରଫେକ୍ସନିଷ୍ଟ ଆମୀର ଖାନଙ୍କ ଲାଡଲୀ ଇରା ଖାନ ଅନ୍ୟତମ । ସୋସିଆଲ ମିଡିଆରେ ସବୁବେଳେ ଆକ୍ଟିଭ ରୁହନ୍ତି ଇରା । ଲାଇମଲାଇଟରୁ ଦୂରେଇ ରହୁଥିବା ଇରା କିନ୍ତୁ ପ୍ରାୟତଃ କିଛି ନା କିଛି କାରଣ ପାଇଁ ଚର୍ଚ୍ଚାରେ ଆସନ୍ତି । କେତେବେଳେ ଫଟୋଗ୍ରାଫର ସାଜି ତ କେତେବେଳେ ଟାଟୁ ମାଷ୍ଟର ହୋଇ । ହେଲେ ଏବେ ସେ ଭିନ୍ନ କାରଣ ପାଇଁ ପୁଣିଥରେ ଚର୍ଚ୍ଚାରେ । ନିକଟରେ ନିଜ ଡିପ୍ରେସନ କଥା କହି ସମସ୍ତଙ୍କୁ ଆଶ୍ଚର୍ଯ୍ୟ କରିଥିବା ଇରା ଆଉ ଏକ ଭିଡିଓ ସେୟାର କରି ଯୌନ ଶୋଷଣ ବିଷୟରେ ମଧ୍ୟ ଆଲୋଚନା କରିଛନ୍ତି। ଇନଷ୍ଟାଗ୍ରାମରେ ସେୟାର କରିଥିବା ଭିଡିଓରେ ସେ ଅନେକ କଥା ବଖାଣିଥିଲେ ।

ଯୌନ ଶୋଷଣ ବିଷୟରେ ସେ କହିଥିଲେ, ‘ଯେବେ ମୁଁ 14 ବର୍ଷର ଥିଲି ସେତେବେଳେ ଯୌନ ଶୋଷଣର ଶିକାର ହୋଇଥିଲି । ତେଣୁ କଣ ଘଟୁଛି ମୁଁ ଜାଣିନଥିଲି, କିନ୍ତୁ ଯେତେବେଳେ ଏହା ବିଷୟରେ ମୁଁ ଜାଣିଲି ତେବେ ଏସବୁ ଜିନିଷରୁ ଦୂରକୁ ପଳାଇଥିଲି । ହେଲେ ପରେ ମୁଁ ବହୁତ ଖରାପ ଅନୁବଭ କଲି କାହିଁକି ନାଁ ମୁଁ ଏହା ମୋ ସହିତ ଘଟିବାତୁ ଦେଲି । କିନ୍ତୁ ଏହା ମଧ୍ୟ ଏତେ ବଡ ଧକ୍କା ନୁହେଁ ଯେ ଯାହା ପାଇଁ ମୁଁ ଜୀବନସାରା ଡିପ୍ରେସନରେ ରହିବି। ମୁଁ ମୋ ଜୀବନର ପ୍ରତ୍ୟେକ ମୁହୂର୍ତ୍ତରେ ମୋର ବନ୍ଧୁ ଏବଂ ପିତାମାତାଙ୍କୁ କହିପାରେ, କିନ୍ତୁ କଣ କହିବି । ସେ ମୋତେ କଣ ପଚାରିବେ? ତେବେ ମୁଁ କଣ କହିବି? ମୋ ମନରେ କୌଣସି ଖରାପ ଘଟଣା ଘଟିନାହିଁ । ଏହି ଚିନ୍ତାଧାରା ମୋତେ ସେମାନଙ୍କ ସହ କଥାବାର୍ତ୍ତା କରିବାରେ ଅଟକାଇ ଦେଇଛି ଏବଂ ସେମାନଙ୍କୁ ଦୂରେଇ ରଖିଛି।’

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  HINDI VERSION - LINK IN BIO. I never spoke to anyone about anything because I assumed that my privilege meant I should handle my stuff on my own, or if there was something bigger, it would make people need a better answer than “I don’t know.” It made me feel like I needed a better answer and until I had that answer, my feelings weren’t something I should bother anyone else with. No problem was big enough to ponder too long about. What would anyone do? I had everything. What would anyone say? I had said it all. I still think there’s a small part of me that thinks I’m making all this up, that I have nothing to feel bad about, that I’m not trying hard enough, that maybe I’m over reacting. Old habits die hard. It takes me feeling my worst to make myself believe that it’s bad enough to take seriously. And no matter how many things I have, how nice to me people are because of my dad, how nice to me people are because they love and care about me... if I feel a certain way, a certain not nice way, then how much can rationally trying to explain these things to myself do? Shouldn’t I instead get up and try and fix things? And if I can’t do that for myself? Shouldn’t I ask for help? . . . #mentalhealth #privilege #depression #repression #divorce #sexualabuse #letstalk #betterlatethannever #letitout #depressionhelp #askforhelp

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  HINDI VERSION - LINK IN BIO. I never spoke to anyone about anything because I assumed that my privilege meant I should handle my stuff on my own, or if there was something bigger, it would make people need a better answer than “I don’t know.” It made me feel like I needed a better answer and until I had that answer, my feelings weren’t something I should bother anyone else with. No problem was big enough to ponder too long about. What would anyone do? I had everything. What would anyone say? I had said it all. I still think there’s a small part of me that thinks I’m making all this up, that I have nothing to feel bad about, that I’m not trying hard enough, that maybe I’m over reacting. Old habits die hard. It takes me feeling my worst to make myself believe that it’s bad enough to take seriously. And no matter how many things I have, how nice to me people are because of my dad, how nice to me people are because they love and care about me... if I feel a certain way, a certain not nice way, then how much can rationally trying to explain these things to myself do? Shouldn’t I instead get up and try and fix things? And if I can’t do that for myself? Shouldn’t I ask for help? . . . #mentalhealth #privilege #depression #repression #divorce #sexualabuse #letstalk #betterlatethannever #letitout #depressionhelp #askforhelp

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  HINDI VERSION - LINK IN BIO. I never spoke to anyone about anything because I assumed that my privilege meant I should handle my stuff on my own, or if there was something bigger, it would make people need a better answer than “I don’t know.” It made me feel like I needed a better answer and until I had that answer, my feelings weren’t something I should bother anyone else with. No problem was big enough to ponder too long about. What would anyone do? I had everything. What would anyone say? I had said it all. I still think there’s a small part of me that thinks I’m making all this up, that I have nothing to feel bad about, that I’m not trying hard enough, that maybe I’m over reacting. Old habits die hard. It takes me feeling my worst to make myself believe that it’s bad enough to take seriously. And no matter how many things I have, how nice to me people are because of my dad, how nice to me people are because they love and care about me... if I feel a certain way, a certain not nice way, then how much can rationally trying to explain these things to myself do? Shouldn’t I instead get up and try and fix things? And if I can’t do that for myself? Shouldn’t I ask for help? . . . #mentalhealth #privilege #depression #repression #divorce #sexualabuse #letstalk #betterlatethannever #letitout #depressionhelp #askforhelp

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ପ୍ରକାଶ ଥାଉକି ଇରା ଅନେକ ପ୍ରସଙ୍ଗରେ ମଧ୍ୟ ନିଜ ପ୍ରତିକ୍ରିୟା ଦେଇସାରିଛନ୍ତି । ନିକଟରେ ସେ ହାଲୋୱିନ 2020କୁ ସେଲିବ୍ରେଶନ କରି ନିଜର ଭୟାନକ ଅବତାର ସୋସିଆଲ ମିଡିଆରେ ସେୟାର କରିଥିଲେ । ଯାହାକୁ ଖୁବ୍ ପସନ୍ଦ କରିଥିଲେ ଫ୍ୟାନ୍ସ ।